Okay, I'm on my soapbox here. I know it may sound like I'm having PMS. I am.
However, here goes: I'm so sick & tired of people complaining that they are NOT getting any help here.
If you don't get the help you want here, then keep on seeking elsewhere. Don't give up.
One person came & complained about not getting help here. He said people on here with their 'stingy a_ _ 's. Now that was uncalled for.
People, no one here got you in your predicament.
There is alot of help here. Many voluntarily share info that will help you. There are some who have given others when they themselves are in need. There is NO 'bucket of gold' here, no general funds & no welfare here.
Many of us spend precious time researching, sharing info that is beneficial.
What makes me upset is the VERY people who complain are the one who have not done a dogone thing for ANYONE on this site.
What have you given? Don't ask what others can do for you, rather what can you do for them. YOU be the one to give/share the aid or assistance.
I know the economy is bad, but don't blame others here. One's 'lack of planning' does not constitute an 'emergency' on someone's elses part.
Alot of us spend alot of time here encouraging & sharing with others. We don't get paid a dime. I know I don't . There was one guy on here having a hard time. I posted a prayer for him. He emailed me telling me 'thanks for the prayer, but I need money'. With that attitude I see why he is short on money! The G-d I know does provide monies.
When people come complaining & fussing about what someone is NOT doing for them, do they think that is going to make someone 'give them something'? Get real!
I got a 'newsflash' for you; if someone was going to give somebody something, that complaining & 'b------g' would change their mind about giving.
We need to grow up & stop acting like kids. People we are on our way to not a recession but a 'depression'. Our old ways of doing things & living may be coming to an end. Let's face it, we have to change our ways & our lifestyle.
Okay, I'll get off my soapbox now. Whew!